Everyone Knows Missionary: For most people this position is common, at least 75% of the population have sex in this position. Missionary is when the woman lies on her back and the men lies on top of her. In this position the woman has less control of how deep the penetration is, the man has most of the control. I would not recommend this pose for women who enjoy/require more direct clitoral stimulation, but little stimulation is provided by rubbing/bumping of pelvises. Some people find this position boring; so to beef it up I recommend using a sex cushion under the pelvic to change the angle to your liking. Recession tip: a pillow or two works just as well. While this is a very basic position, it makes men orgasm (cum, ejaculate) quicker. This happens because there is more pelvic thrusting which increases tension in the muscles building sexual tension quicker than which occurs when there is less thrusting. Men who wish to hold off their orgasm or men who have premature ejaculation concerns should consider this before deciding on this position.
Ladies, though more work is required the best position to achieve maximal clitoral stimulation, control of penetration, and speed is the woman on top position. Because you and your partner have direct access to the clitoris you/your partner are able to use as little or as much stimulation as desired. Your parter can also help should you get tiered by helping lift and lower you during sex.
The Scissors is a great position for people who enjoy closeness, kissing, or being face to face with their partner during sex. The woman lies on her side and lifts one leg. Next the man lies on his side facing his partner and places his self sideway between her legs. The lady can wrap her legs around the partner's back or hold them straight out behind the partner's back. Both partners then move as they thrust in and out like scissors opening and closing. This position can be challenging at times but it provides excellent g-spot stimulation for the woman.
Kneeling Lotus (please note if you have any knee injuries this may not be the one for you; you may blow your load and knee out at the same time) is another good position for g-spot stimulation, while at the same time the angle of the penis may make for quicker orgasm. In this position the man is on his legs, knees bended. The woman then straddles her partner exactly like the woman on top position. You can wrap your arms around each if you would like. Again, this position does provide little clitoral stimulation but direct access to the clitoris is obstructed.
Doggy Style can be fun for both partners and can be done standing, on all fours or half and half. Traditionally the woman is on all fours ( hands and knees). The man gets on his knees and penetrates his partner from the back, vaginally or anally whichever you prefer, he can place his hands on her waist, breast, or shoulders to pull his partner in as he thrusts. He can also reach down to stimulate the clitoris. Variations: the woman can stimulate her clitoris, she can tug or rub the testicles, or massage the peranieum (the area of skin just behind the testicles but in front of the anus). Also she can put a pillow or a few under her upper body to change the angle of penetration. For a downward penetration lower down to rest on your knees and forearms.
69: this is more than just the Cancer zodiac representation; its a give give sex position. Either the man or the woman can lie on their back. the partner gets on top with their face facing their partners genitals. The couple then performs oral sex on each other at the same time.
DP: For some people find during sex "the more the merrier". If thats you the Double Penetration (DP) is the position for you. This requires three participants, two men a woman (other variations are: three men, three women, two women and one man). This position is a combination of doggy style and woman on top. One man lies on his back then the woman straddles him, his penis penetrating her vagina. The woman leans slightly forward and the other male then penetrates her anally in doggy style position. the woman moves up and down and both men can thrust as well.
In addition to cleverly named positions; you can incorporate office or household furniture, stand, or do it against the wall. Also, these and many other positions can be done with a sex swing either bolted in or one that can be installed and uninstalled. Remember theres always the kitchen counter, the bathroom tile, perhaps a sturdy chair. When it comes to sex positions the sky is the limit.
These positions and more are available in books, online, or via email at theesexdoc.blogspot@gmail.com
Resources: Some great books are available for various sex positions from in the bath to in the bed ranging from beginner to advanced
The Little Book of Wild Sex Positions by: Siobhan Kelly
The Anal Sex Position Guide:The Best Positions for Easy, Exciting, Mind-Blowing Pleasure by: Tristan Taormino
Ride Em' Cowgirl by: Dr. Sadie Allison
Remember: Stretch before you start.
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